“Love Doesn’t Help: Everyone Should Be Loved, But Not Everyone Should Be Given Our Hearts Or Privacy” By Warazi Onyelobi

Some people really need love
and affection and some people just need only help, and the difficulty in
distinguishing these two sets of people has often made us victim of devastating
relationships. In this article you will discover a great difference between
INFLUENCE and PRESENCE and their individual SIGNIFICANCE when it comes to LOVE
and FEELINGS. Continue reading to know more…

Some people really need love
and affection and some people just need only help, and the difficulty in
distinguishing these two sets of people has often made us victim of devastating
relationships. Such situation can cause a devastation that can damage one’s
spirit of Philantropism and compassion. However everyone should be loved, but
not everyone should be given our hearts or privacy.

I will make us understand these
whole complications using the terms “presence” and
“influence”. To love someone, is to seek someone’s presence, in which
thereafter such person’s presence creates an influence.

When someone wants your
influence but doesn’t fancy your presence, such person needs help not love.
That is why some people do not feel shame asking someone for sex when they
realize only their influence is needed.

So they tend to exchange their
influence with available pleasure. Influencing someone may be through financial
aid, job opportunity or other forms of alleviation. However, loving someone who
needs love will make you not to feel the stress and losses of your influence on
such person’s life, because when we are really in love, there can never be room
for sense of loss, for the only loss that can ever be in true affection is the
absence of the loved one.

Man is a potential monster, to
devour everything around him is a vice inherent in him, you can only control
such monster in him when you learn how to control how you feel towards him.

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Written By:

Warazi Onyelobi

Poet and Passionate Writer

Credit: Warazi’s Poems